俺二婚了:
俺这一生收到的礼物最多的是和吃喝玩乐有关的,吃的,都吃完了,玩的,也玩好了,俺也木有照相机,俺都记脑子里了。要是说,收到的最珍贵礼物,那就是去年在教堂里重蒙了俺和领导的婚约了。
去年俺和LD又在教堂重新结了一次婚,当着神和人的面起誓不管贫穷还是疾病,都不离不弃!俺这个不应该算是复婚,俺们也没离过婚。俺LD一直都是俺最亲的亲人了,现在更是亲上加亲,婚上加婚,不知到俺这算不算是个重婚或近亲婚,呵呵,咱就叫它“二婚”吧!
二婚照:乐的腮帮子都鼓了~~
每对婚姻能走下去,都是个神迹:
俺觉得每对婚姻能走下去,都是个神迹。婚姻中俩个不同性别和性格,不同家庭社会背景,不同爱好,不同价值观的人能长久友爱和睦地生活在一起,都是门很大的艺术,要俩人长期相互包容舍己才能做到。
讲讲俺是如何对待婚姻的~~
嫁地太早:
我上大学时,时兴读哲学书,我从卢梭,叔本华,尼采,到弗洛伊德。。,买到什么读什么,日子怎么拧巴怎 么过,夜以继日地,不厌其烦地自己忽悠自己。实际上,现在想一想,就是太幼稚,老想搞点人生哲理出来。
俺LD当时看见俺幼稚,就给俺下套,雪上加霜,当时,他老给俺唱“阿美阿美几时办嫁妆”
歌词好像是这样地:
(阿美阿美几时办嫁妆,我急得快发狂,
今天今天你要老实讲,我是否有希望?
虽然我是个穷光蛋,人又长得不怎末样,
但是你要想一想,看看自己的长相.)
俺当时被洗脑后,觉得自己长地很丑,在21岁那年,刚刚告别了俺地213的大学时代,怕脑残人丑不好嫁,就赶快把自己嫁了出去!
后来俺发现,俺丑地也不是很明显,这是后话了,有时间在讲给你们听~~
从新认识自己:
我因为结婚早,磨合期也就长了。
我特别欣赏弗兰克-唯克多的一句名言:“When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.” Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
我觉得认识自己,改变自己能改变的,在一个婚姻中很重要~~
和LD比,俺身上有三个很明显地特点;
1。俺一定是倔驴俱乐部的,年轻时,俺最爱找茬抬杠,抬杠还要赢才行~~
这个是俺的一个很大的特征。zt图:
2。俺地一个优点是脸皮厚,不怕“丢脸”zt图:
3。和LD比,让俺捉急地,实际上是俺地智商,不过,傻人自有傻福气,俺改变不了俺地智商。在婚姻关系中,俺笨,LD才也有机会充分发挥了他的领导才能和解决问题的能力!zt图:
改变自己:
改掉倔驴特征,甘心服输,情愿做个小女人,这是从思想上为美好的婚姻奠定的基础。
我第一次结婚的时候才21岁,正是脾气急血气旺的年龄。俺花了二十多年才意识到,一个好的人际关系的基础是很自尊地把自我放下。以前总有要被认同和证明自己是正确的需要,争强好胜的心气夺去了内心的喜乐和平安,现在学习了在家听家里LD的,在单位听单位LD的,日子变的如此的随意顺当,想起当初那个硬着颈项的我,真是遗憾功课学习的有点晚,有点长。现在看着那个华丽丽躺在地下休息的自我,自己还是要不断勉励自己更加的谦卑谨慎,以防她随时起来捣乱。哈哈。
现在的我争取笑脸迎一切:zt图:
树立爱劳动的思想,这是从实践上维护了一个平凡的婚姻。
俺打小爱劳动,总是在奶奶家的厨房里给她帮厨,做饭和做家务都是俺的强项,蒸包子,煤炉子上煮米饭,俺打小都会,俺爱劳动的革命传统一直保留到现在,俺厨房里用具除了神造猪蹄牌,还是神造猪蹄牌。俺的思想是:有能力去服持配偶和家人是俺的福气。
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“婚纱”和发型:
俺本着节约地原则,一切从俭,这个个是在安家网上定的一个很随意的裙子(By Byron Lars),平时也可以穿。这个裙子很有层次感,当时还怕穿不好,像乞丐帮帮主一样,不过后来效果还行(请忽略鞋)。
那天的发型:
祝愿:
坛里的已婚的XDJM们,都能在平凡的婚姻生活中,找到自己的位置,相互扶持,恩爱有加,
还在寻找的,祝愿早日找到属于自己的那一位!
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最美好的祝福献给你!!
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