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推荐这本书的原因之二:让我们学着充分表达感受。这是平等的沟通,是对自己的尊重,也是对别人的尊重。这本书指导我们练习表达自己的感受,而不是评价。表达评判的是语言。人类语言是我满陷于“是非”之中,它擅长将人类分类。牙牙学语的孩童已经开始把人称作“好人”“坏人”,然后又正常或不正常,负责人或不负责任,聪明或愚蠢,勤劳或懒惰,等等。我们从小就学着用评价的语言表达自己。不幸的是,这样的方式提出主张,很可能会招来敌意。即便对自己,屈服于评价的压力,很可能使我们心存怨恨,并厌恶自己。“爱”的另外一层含义是正视并准确地用语言表达自己的感受和需要,不将冲突归咎于哪一方。当我们不在试图分析自己或他人有什么毛病,而是用心去理解我们的感受,内心会变得平和。
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