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reasonpeople (2024-01-18 00:31:26)
之所以说情绪价值是非常浅薄廉价的价值是因为情绪不会让你获得你想要的东西,反而常常成为实现你需求的障碍。人没有实现两个相互冲突的目标的能力,而情绪本身就隐含了反理性、反逻辑以及目标上的自我矛盾,人一旦跟着情绪走,就会陷入既想要A又想要B还想要c的三角不能的关系:什么都想要,通常意味着,什么都要不了。能满足人们一时快感的事情,其实也是不利于实现大家更高、更远层面的需求的事情,这个更高更远层面的需求,可以是狭义上的金钱和利益,也可以是各种各样的感情,还可以是另一种更重要更持久的情绪上的满足。聪明的人,应该也是内心强大的人,他们可以看到最核心的价值和需求,知道自己最想要的是什么,他们后面的一切努力,都是为了这个目标/价值观而服务。和这个目标/价值观无关的东西,在必要的时候,都有放弃的觉悟。资源是有限的,什么都想要,会活的很累,甚至因矛盾而陷入痛苦。要的东西越少,反而轻松、专注。
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